Pollux
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I've been away from THERE for a few weeks and recently come back on to find that most of the offerings in auctions are simply sexy clothing that's very revealing. I miss the variety. Every female avatar seems to be competing to show more and more skin. Where are the original designs that show talent and innovation? Is all it takes to look attractive a whole lot of cleavage and some carefully placed chains?
I don't want to lose the cute and sexy looks (the hotpants are very cute but are they still cute when *everyone* is wearing them?) but I'd love to see some balance and choice back in THERE's fashion areas.
Many a time I'll find an awesome looking outfit and it will be designed for a male. Not every woman wants to wear revealing clothing and it would be nice to have a wardrobe that compliment all sorts of occasions.
The current landscape is a sea of T&A that while frisky and fun can be downright boring when viewed day in and out. Any designers out there have ideas for cool clothing that isn't designed specifically to be sexy?
Understandably I don't expect any men to agree with my POV but surely there must be someone who'd like to have balance without insisting on any one type of available clothing. I browse auctions for hours and very rarely find anything that's not a carbon copy of something else.
I'm not against sexy clothes at all -- I would just love to see other types of clothing. Racing jackets are way cool etc.
Sometimes I will dress sexily but I don't see the need for it 24/7.
Any designers with new ideas out there?
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Ketae
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I agree with you... I'm sort of tired of looking for a conservative sweater/jeans outfit for a decent price.
Too much of the stuff out there right now is just geared towards female avatars looking like "boy toys".
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I really would like to see alot more conservative desgins coming in personally... On accasion, less is more(When referring to showing skin)
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Just give us some  "Great liars are also great magicians"
"The victor will never be asked if he told the truth."
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Neckromacr
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Ok I'll be the one wierd guy and say we need to cut down on the "boy toy" quoteient of women's clothes in There. If only for the fact that it sends out the wrong signals.
I've seen some of the goober males out there tactlessly putting the moves on female Therians, this won't change. But perhaps if most of the clothing options weren't so revealing the boy's poor misguided and overproduced hormones wouldn't get so riled up.
Also I'd like to have a conversation with a chick without my eyes being drawn towards her "assets". And on a personal note I think one of the hottest outfits I've seen on a female avie of late is Cameron_Marie's Red Goth outfit. It dosen't reveal a whole lot, but what it does is enticing. Then again, like I said in the first place, I'm a wierd guy. 
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Pollux
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Wow -- I was bracing myself for a whippin' and didn't expect anyone to actually AGREE with me. I have to thank you for sharing your POV -- I agree on the "boy toy" thing.
I don't mind more conservative clothing at all -- the more clothing, the more area you have to work with, right? I just like a techie, girl punk look sometimes or even just something elegant or plain pretty as opposed to "sexy". Sporty is good, too. Gosh there are so many possibilities but yesterday I must have spent about an hour and a half going through auctions and feeling miserable because everything was very "Britney Spearsish".
I think you have pointed out something interesting, Neckro, with the whole thing about ogling women and giving the wrong message. I can see if your avatar is out at a nightclub or dancing or something, sexy clothing would work -- but all the time? *sigh*
PhriendlyWoman -- I am just a beginning designer, do you have any tips or could you point me in the right direction? I'd really appreciate it. By beginning I mean I just downloaded the Style Maker last night:)
Ketae I love your little graphic:) I would love to see more sweaters and things with character and personality that don't all say "Come and get me, boys!"
Thanks for your support, I hope others feel the same way and we can achieve some variety in our THERE closets:)
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Allyson
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July 2003
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I agree with you Pollux!
Yesterday I was looking at a lot of the designers' sites to see what is "pending" -- just something I'm used to doing out of habit and I came across something from Crush that I am dying to have...
< http://www.lalunadesigns.com/crush/shirts2.htm > Scroll waaaaay down to the bottom with the "pending" items and look at that sweater set. I think that is entirely too cute.
I don't point it out as an advertisement for Crush (although, I'm sure they don't mind ) but more as an example of "less isn't always more". I would LOVE to see more clothing along those lines!!
That being said -- I still have a ThereWardrobe filled with regular looking clothing  The designers in There are extremely talented and all they need to know is what we want! If there is a market for it there will always be a designer ready to take on the challenge. "I would never die for my beliefs because I might be wrong."
Bertrand Russell
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Nalora
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Sep. 2003
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I, too am a "conservative" avie. I find it hard but not impossible to find some decent things to wear. I finally was forced to buy my first pair of "hot pants" last week, but only because the design was so darling it really suited me. (It was that "Regatta" outfit----sweet!
There are several nice sweater vests, and of course the new tied oxford is sweet with a pair of jeans. The Therestock line is pretty nice for keeping the skin covered, as well. Heck I am VANILLA for a reason!
I would LOVE to see the Bermuda short and board short models released to the designers so you can get some decent shorts that are not HOT pants.
If you want to have a look at the stuff I have purchased that is conservative give me an IM in game!
(also has a running list of search words for things I have seen and have on my want list)
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switch_79
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i'm not exactly the conservative type myself, but i just had to add that YES, i'd like to see some variety back in the selections of women's clothing. personally, i only own one pair of hotpants (for my undies, that i like to lounge around in when shopping at my there house, ooh lala!  )... typically, when in more public areas i stick to the pants. and lately, i browse the pants section and all i get is rows upon rows of hotpants, friggin unbelievable.
i know that pants are a little difficult to make in comparison, but MAN, what i wouldn't give for a new pair in auctions.
also, why not try shooting for original as an eye catcher, instead of sexy? i have nothing but for you designers, who devote a lot of creative time and a helluva lot more $T into your work, but please consider making more items that make a person say "wow" for reasons other than how see-thru or plunging it is. 
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PhriendlyWoman
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To Pollux:
In a few weeks I will be rolling out extensive tutorials, I will be sure to announce it to all.  "Some say I'm a dreamer, but I'm not the only one. I hope some day you'll join us, and the world will be as one." -John Lennon |
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Whimsy
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I have to admit that I do love the hot pants model, it's cute, and as a designer, it's a fun model to work with. However, it is /very/ rare for me to wear a cleavage baring shirt in There. I think I may own one or two, but it's a rare thing for me to pull them out.
I've been thinking along the same lines as everyone else here. I'm sick of seeing nothing but skin. Plus, it's Autumn here now, and I'm in the sweater wearing mode. It's definitely time to see more variety in the auctions 
This is currently in auction:
And these two are currently pending:
 
Also, you might want to look around Polly Gone Mad. Check under my name, Chiasmodus, and Sammykun. There are a lot of non cleavage baring shirts there.
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Melora
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| Quote (Whimsy @ Sep. 24 2003, 8:56 pm) | I have to admit that I do love the hot pants model, it's cute, and as a designer, it's a fun model to work with. However, it is /very/ rare for me to wear a cleavage baring shirt in There. I think I may own one or two, but it's a rare thing for me to pull them out.
I've been thinking along the same lines as everyone else here. I'm sick of seeing nothing but skin. Plus, it's Autumn here now, and I'm in the sweater wearing mode. It's definitely time to see more variety in the auctions
This is currently in auction:
And these two are currently pending:
Also, you might want to look around Polly Gone Mad. Check under my name, Chiasmodus, and Sammykun. There are a lot of non cleavage baring shirts there. |
Consider them purchased!
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Pollux
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Mar. 2003
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I LOVE That black sweater! I'm going to go buy it now.
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Pollux
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I LOVE That black sweater! I'm going to go buy it now.
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Allyson
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Whimsy -- adorable! I already have the black sweater --- the others are nice as well! Awesome awesome job.
Raven -- You bunch at Crush are doing great as well! I can't wait to see what rolls out next! "I would never die for my beliefs because I might be wrong."
Bertrand Russell
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bobita228
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I love those outfits! But you are absolutely right. There seems to be an abundance of very sexy clothing for women. And hey....they're great, but it doesn't always have to be about the cleavage or skin! Something like Whimsy's design is perfect, and hey, it's STILL sexy! I hope to see more of these! And like Whimsy said...its sweater time, so its time to bundle up! A while back we talked about what type of other "environments" we would like to see in There. And that would be great if they could do a Winter one, or Fall....or one for all seasons, can you imagine if you could click to select on a pile of leaves to "jump around" or go skiing? More room for more outfits! I'm all for it!
Sooo.....what were we talking about again? Oh yeah.....sexy clothing. I think I put my 2 cents in. 
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Ketae
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Sep. 2003
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Lovely designs Phriendly... I'll be browsing the auctions in anticipation should you submit these or something along the same line in the future! "Great liars are also great magicians"
"The victor will never be asked if he told the truth."
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glissy
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I, too, love the sexy clothing, but it just doesn't feel right wearing it any other time than, say, when you are being sexy, like attending a party, or riding a bike, or whatever else. (for the record, i rather loathe hotpants)
What -I- wish we women had was more loose fitting things. You know, big fluffy sweaters, comfortable sweatshirts, loose pants, ANYTHING to get past all that skintight. i mean, i hardly ever wear skintight pants in the real world. (but having truly skintight pants, and not flares, would be wonderful for all my weird designs!
i mean, if guys can have hoodies and thug gloves.. why can't we women? with that said, i, also have a sort of "fall-winter" line, but most of my ideas are kind of squashed from lack of looser, fluffier clothes. expect beanies. lots of beanies. i <3 beanies. -----BEGIN GEEK CODE BLOCK-----
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Cherub
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Aug. 2003
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I've found lots of cute Stylemaker tops that don't overdo boobage.  I personally only wear hot pants as bathing suit bottoms when I'm chilling by the water or something, but that's just me. They seem funny to me as part of a regular outfit, but I kinda dress my av similar to how I dress irl, and I hate shorts (I like skirts and dresses actually!! ).
I really like Whimsy's stuff!! I already have a couple items from her and I adore that orangey-rust sweater!!
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Pollux
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| Quote (glissy @ Sep. 25 2003, 2:35 am) | | What -I- wish we women had was more loose fitting things. You know, big fluffy sweaters, comfortable sweatshirts, loose pants, ANYTHING to get past all that skintight. |
I noticed this in the real world as well with the advent of the babydoll T shirt. Now a lot of sites list the good old regular T shirt as a piece of Men's clothing and the babydoll T shirt is the woman's T shirt. What's up with that? Not everyone can wear a babydoll T and still look nice. I have chunky arms so that's not going to work for me. Just look at thinkgeek.com for some examples. They're called "Ladies T's". I really don't understand why everything a woman wears has to be form fitting or tight to the body. We're not freaking pieces of meat we're people. And we do like baggy or loose comfprtble clothing.
This stuff reminds me of the days of the corset when women were incapacitated and couldn't breathe in them. Then we have high heeled shoes (which men stopped wearing after the Napoleonic era) which also are restrive and cause problems.
Why does female fashion have to be so ridiculously uncomfortable and tight? Men get to wear all sorts of love outfits. even bathing suits -- men can wear big shorts (Trunks) in a pool but women HAVE to wear skimpy panties? WHY?
Did you see the coverage on the butts of these designs, too? They pretty much cover your crack and that's about it. I personally don't see the point in bothering to cover that much if everything else is already hanging out. I'm an all or nothing sort of girl.
The idea for different seasons is GREAT! You can even have fashionable umbrellas for rainy days and cute ski outfits for the slopes!
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Whimsy
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Feb. 2003
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Thanks!!!
Phriendly, those are simply adorable!!! I'll definitely be getting them.
Oh, and I would LOVE to have an area of There that looks like Fall... I'd probably end up spending all of my time there.
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BOINCer
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Aug. 2003
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Some of the outfits are unbelievably hot! I spend half my time in world wiping the droll off my shoes. It would be nice to be able to talk an Avie with focusing on her boobs.
I'm not saying that I don't love 'em, I’m saying I might be able to talk about more than their clothes if I could get eyes and mind off of them. I know, I'm a pig! Can't help it.
I've noticed that when I complement one lady on her hot outfit someone in the group has to one-up her and put on something even hotter! Often it turns into a fashion show. 
I guess what I'm seeing is that some ladies really like showing their Avie stuff, while some in this thread seem to think it is over the top. I guess the main issue is availability of clothes for both ways of dressing. Am I close? BOINCer, but you may call me Bo
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Troz
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I've wanted to design some nice, sexy but still pretty conservative clothing for women (ie-sweaters) but would anyone actually buy that stuff? I'm scared of submitting cause I fear it'll be a waste of T$... 
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Pollux
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Mar. 2003
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On one hand it's about respect but on the other some women don't value respect as much as they value male approval. That's how I see it. It's fun to look sexy sometimes but it's all about teasing men and having men say we look good because face it, women's entire worth is based on their looks, not the things they're capable of. As you said, you stare at a virtual character's breasts. The fact that they're not real breasts doesn't matter -- would you stare at a well endowed woman in real life as well? That's about respect.
If all of a sudden showing skin or having big breasts was considered ugly, you could watch how fast women would run to cover up. You know how women change to satisfy what men demand of them. It's sad, really.
If I wear sexy clothing it's not because I want to stay at home and look at myself in a mirror, it's all about approval from others. And some people are not as attractive in real life so this is their chance to look sexy to guys (who also probably aren't Adonis's).
Me, I don't need to look sexy, I already have a man LOL:)
I am not about to take away the sexy clothing but variety is the spice of life and if you always saw sexy stuff it gets to the point where it doesn't mean anything anymore -- people get numbed to it. That's why they say that it's not such a big deal to see naked women on TV in Europe, because it's commonplace.
As for avatars there is no way I am peeking to see if a male avatar's "package" is bulging "enough" -- I mean why would I be staring at some pixels like that anyway? It's not sexy, it's a cartoon. It's not real. I just don't get what men see at all. They seem to not mind if it's all imagined or not. Oh well.
But like someone else up there said, it's a respect thing as well as a choice thing. At least that's how I see it.
Women = ornaments
men = instruments
Someday that might change. I sure hope so.
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Ara
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April 2003
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I get your points!
i started designing boobed clothing cause its the "IN" and its a best seller!! w00t!!
But i think speaking or my gals that wearing sexy clothign is the only freedom we can get! In real life i wouldnt wear a Boobied top in a date! Its all about being sexy in there! Its how you get men... (im not 100% sure)
It increases self confidence since we can show how big our
t!ts are!! MUAHAHAHA!
Ara
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Pollux
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| Quote (Troz @ Sep. 25 2003, 10:00 am) | | I've wanted to design some nice, sexy but still pretty conservative clothing for women (ie-sweaters) but would anyone actually buy that stuff? I'm scared of submitting cause I fear it'll be a waste of T$... |
I would buy nice sweaters even if they RAE NOT sexy. I don't exist as a woman or as an avie to BE a sex object. I am me and I want to express other things besides my sexuality. I think many women feel that way or at least would like to have a choice in the matter.
By designers only ever offering sexy stuff it tells us that women have to be sexy all the time and that's a crock.
Choic is good. It is a sad shame that you and maybe other designers feel that you may be wasting money on it. I understand your concerns, really. But I guess a waterfall starts with just one drop of water.
I am going to spend my T$ designing nifty duds that aren't expressly sexy (and that does not equal frumpy or dowdy, either) once THERE gives me my bonus T$ for joining. That way I will have stuff to wear even if no one else makes any, lol:) Let's start a revolution.
No one's taking away the sexy clothes, let's just add choice.
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Nalora
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| Quote (Whimsy @ Sep. 24 2003, 7:56 pm) | I have to admit that I do love the hot pants model, it's cute, and as a designer, it's a fun model to work with. However, it is /very/ rare for me to wear a cleavage baring shirt in There. I think I may own one or two, but it's a rare thing for me to pull them out.
I've been thinking along the same lines as everyone else here. I'm sick of seeing nothing but skin. Plus, it's Autumn here now, and I'm in the sweater wearing mode. It's definitely time to see more variety in the auctions
This is currently in auction:
And these two are currently pending:
Also, you might want to look around Polly Gone Mad. Check under my name, Chiasmodus, and Sammykun. There are a lot of non cleavage baring shirts there. |
Bought that the first day it was put up!!! Just DARLING on!!!
Nalora
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Troz
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''yay! Those are the EXACT types of clothing I was considering for my women's line...hehehe, line. I've gotten like TWO drawn up...
How do ya'll get the details to look so crisp? Everytime I do lines they are CRAZY blurry...
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Whimsy
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Feb. 2003
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awww.. Thank you, Nalora!
Troz, I use a flat tone, and then I use the blinds effect (PSP 7.. but I'm sure PS has something similar) to make it look ribbed. Make sure that you save your jpg file to have maximum quality.. 100% if your paint progam allows it.
The Racing Jacket mesh is also good for sweaters. I made this one this morning using it:
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Ibizza
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aww.. this is soo cute. I prefer those "sexy" clothes, but this is really awesome Whimsy.  Just a free spirit in her own dreamland....
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Pollux
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"But i think speaking or my gals that wearing sexy clothign is the only freedom we can get! In real life i wouldnt wear a Boobied top in a date! Its all about being sexy in there! Its how you get men... (im not 100% sure)
It increases self confidence since we can show how big our
t!ts are!!"
You are kidding, right? Freedom? "t!ts" (is masking allowed here?)? "It's all about being sexy...it's how you get men."
It is a fallacy that being half naked increases a woman's sense of self worth and confidence. Men like anything with big breasts. How confident are you if that's all you have going for you? You can be a total moron and have big breasts and have this "self confidence". So people like me who have brains would be laughing at you because you are delusional in your "confidence". There's nothing funnier than watching someone make a fool of themselves when they believe they look COOL.
Looking sexy is one thing but existing to be a slave object for men is what keeps women down and makes certain we will always make around 75 cents for every dollar a man gets. I guess you don't think it's a bad thing making 75 cents as long as your big big breasts are hanging out, eh?
I have confidence because I'm smart and like myself as I am. If you need to change yourself to suit men to have confidence then I just feel very sorry for you.
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Pollux
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BT Whimsy, I looked for that sweater yesterday and couldn't find it; I'll try again tonight.
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Marcy_D
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May 2003
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Hi All! I have been playing There since April and although I haven't been around much in the last month or so...I have noticed that the clothing has been getting skimpier and skimpier. Remember thought that There is a free market society. Designers make what people will buy. Clothing is getting skimpier because that is what people buy.
It may well be that there are people interested in more conservative clothing styles as this thread indicates.
I rarely post here, but a few thoughts came to mind reading it. I think that what we wear on our avatars is a personal choice and does not necessarily reflect our ideology on women or their place in society. This is a closed fantasy environment environment. It seems a bit unfair to judge the intelligence or value of a person based upon what they wear on or how they design their avatar.
We should also try to remember that the age range of players in There is vast. Some players are quite young, while others of us are more mature.
I am 35 for example, with a masters degree and an executive position in business. I am keenly aware of the "glass ceiling" as well as the feminization of the workforce and other issues related to women in the workplace and culture at large. However, I enjoy dressing my avatar up in a variety of ways...anyone who knows me can attest to the fact that I purchase a variety of styles for Marcy_D. She is a fantasy character of mine. She is not working. She is not caring for children. She is not real. She is NOT me.
Nice for us to remember that what we may choose for ourselves, others may not. Lets not lose sight...these are PIXELS people...PIXELS.  Marcy_D
"It is not our abilities that show who we truly are, it is our choices" ~ Professor Dumbledore
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Nalora
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Sep. 2003
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I personally tire of the anonymity and the "putting on" of an fake internet personality. I am ME in There, as much me as I can be given I am using a toon like avatar. If I wanted a role playing game I would have stayed in Neverwinter Nights.
I am not saying that if you wish to become something UNREAL in There that you do not have the right to do that, but I am saying that despite the admonition that it is all PIXELS there is a very REAL person behind that monitor.
Nalora
wonders if you could get away with child porn on your harddrive by merely saying: But officer, it is just PIXELS!
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Ara
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Ill try not to say anything about what u said pollux. For me, I speak for my friends who love dressing sexy cause we wanna be sexy. Its a woman's decision to do so. Never tell someone that what their wearing is funny, or wrong cause its how we express what we feel.
If you are starting a "Flame" on me or my ideals please stop cause its not a good idea.
and yes ive been masking words for a while...
!!! MUAHAHAHA!
Ara
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Ara
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and btw i do apologize for saying
"It increases self confidence since we can show how big our
t!ts are!!"
since you dont know who i am, you wont get it... MUAHAHAHA!
Ara
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Tansy
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My avie wears both types of clothing.
Depending on how I feel, what group I'm with and what I'm doing (read I as the avie), then I'll dress accordingly.
The real me is comfortable with wearing the everyday type clothing. It would be nice to see loose pants, sweatshirts and overlarge tops in There. But, we have to deal with what we get.
FYI, got a chance to talk with one of the folks from There at TRLG who do the design checking. They've noticed the rise in "daring" designs. Originally the plan was to keep outfit at a PG-13 level, but soon realized the members were not wanting that at all.
Whimsy, sweetie, you do wonderful stuff, but I'm hoping to see that black sweater set done in carmel. I've got my heart set on finding a hoodie,tshirt combo but one that is not in shops as they look so yuckie with the colours chosen.
My hubby joined There last night. He liked my look
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glissy
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Yeah, I agree. This really isn't an issue to get all riled up and ranting about feminism. Not that anyone is really ranting yet.. but still. It is your choice. A lot of us agree. But some people still like to dress sexy. Maybe after having several children, it's nice to have a perky body again?
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Melora
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| Quote (Pollux @ Sep. 25 2003, 4:48 pm) | "But i think speaking or my gals that wearing sexy clothign is the only freedom we can get! In real life i wouldnt wear a Boobied top in a date! Its all about being sexy in there! Its how you get men... (im not 100% sure)
It increases self confidence since we can show how big our
t!ts are!!"
You are kidding, right? Freedom? "t!ts" (is masking allowed here?)? "It's all about being sexy...it's how you get men."
It is a fallacy that being half naked increases a woman's sense of self worth and confidence. Men like anything with big breasts. How confident are you if that's all you have going for you? You can be a total moron and have big breasts and have this "self confidence". So people like me who have brains would be laughing at you because you are delusional in your "confidence". There's nothing funnier than watching someone make a fool of themselves when they believe they look COOL.
Looking sexy is one thing but existing to be a slave object for men is what keeps women down and makes certain we will always make around 75 cents for every dollar a man gets. I guess you don't think it's a bad thing making 75 cents as long as your big big breasts are hanging out, eh?
I have confidence because I'm smart and like myself as I am. If you need to change yourself to suit men to have confidence then I just feel very sorry for you. |
You know its interesting that this topic has been brought up.
Tonight I did a little test. When I wore my risque outfits, I was immediately welcomed in chat groups that were balanced to both men and women. The men of course would oogle me and one asked me personal questions that I would NEVER reveal.
When I teleported to another island, I changed my avatar's clothes. I put on black pin stripe pants and a basic plain black blouse that I designed. Only 3 people approached me. One asked me about my blouse, while the other two I had completely intelligent conversations with. I managed to join one group where one person chatted with me while the rest basically ignored me as they were all in more risque clothing.
So while I do believe in people having the right to decide what their avatar wears, I do see some difference in communication between some dressed avatars and some who wear risque clothing. (Please note I used the word 'some'. )
When I wear my sexy clothes, I make it a point of talking to everyone. 
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Cherub
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Yeah, I have no problems with sexy clothes, I'd just like to see some more non-hot pants bottoms for women!! I've browsed a lot and haven't found much new lately.
Plus I'd really like a plain white cotton tank to wear with Whimsy's undies when I'm with my man... glissy, when're you gonna make that white ribbed cotton tank for women? Like the one you did for guys?
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Cherub
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Hmmm... or was it glissy that mentioned that??? Somebody please make a white ribbed cotton tank!!
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it was sammykun, but if he doesn't hurry his little butt up, i just might have to make one! i  cotton ribbed wifebeaters.  -----BEGIN GEEK CODE BLOCK-----
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mszeta
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I saw your post on my Thread and thank your for sharing your thoughts. I wear both Sexy, or what I like to call Scandalous apparel as well as Casual/Conservative clothing. I am a versatile person and just like in RL as I do in the game I have an array of clothing, show and hair styles, as I like the variety. I have found quite a bit of conservative clothing in Auctions as this is mostly what I could wear until some very nice and understanding designers started making apparel for Darker Avies. And yes I am very grateful to them. There may be some women who feel the need to wear Scandalous clothing to be more confident, but there is a huge number of “US” who do not need these clothing to feel that way. Prior to more Sexy designs coming out in my skin tone I wore more conservative clothing and never had a problem with attracting avies of the opposite sex nor have I had a problem entering a conversation of my wishes and being denied my existence or feeling like a non-entity. And for the record I love both types of clothing and feel that no one should be restricted to a certain type of apparel. Ooh BTW – I love Business Suits and have over 50 in RL all that can and some have been worn on interviews. This is an article of clothing I am longing to see in Auctions and hopefully the designer does not make it skin tone specific. Thanks for your time.  I refuse to allow a game or anyone for that matter sanction me from speaking my mind. I AM PROUD, I AM URBAN, I AM a WOMAN of GOD....HEAR ME ROAR!!!!
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I totally agree with you Pollux. From a designer's persepective, I would love to design woman's outfits that did not have to include skin. It's actually quite difficult to match skin tones, and make sure contact lines between skin and clothing are not distorted. But sometimes, designers aren't really thinking about the clothes they are selling--they are thinking about the money--and many female avatars in There like to buy sexy outfits, that also include creativity and unique style. Some female avatars dont like the all out sexy look, some like it sometimes, some want it 24/7 -- cant' make everyone happy..it's what floats your boat...we just need more variety
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Rick_Slick
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Okay, by request from this thread. Didn't use any skin... stylish and professional. Available as soon as it's approved.
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mszeta
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| Quote (Rick_Slick @ Sep. 26 2003, 5:02 pm) | Okay, by request from this thread. Didn't use any skin... stylish and professional. Available as soon as it's approved.
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I love it!!!! You have my sale. What will u call it, as to me it looks like a casual biz suit. I refuse to allow a game or anyone for that matter sanction me from speaking my mind. I AM PROUD, I AM URBAN, I AM a WOMAN of GOD....HEAR ME ROAR!!!!
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It'll be listed as Navy Pinstripe Ladies Jacket w/Dress Shirt
The slacks are Navy Pinstripe Ladies Slacks
Both still pending approval. Rick Slick
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Trisha
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Rick,
I love it! You have my sale when they are approved! Now i just need some nice heels to go with it and maybe a burberry purse haha. Trisha,
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switch_79
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melora makes a very good point with her study... i have also experienced this kind of bias, though i wouldn't say it bothers me that much. most of the time, when in chat groups with scantily-dressed avies and ogling male n00bs (or regulars), i just laugh it off and throw a few '''hearts and a 'blowkiss her way too.
the funny thing is, a LOT (i'm not going to say all) of the avies that dress this way really revel in it, and don't extend the convo past it very far. i find myself growing increasingly bored with the small talk chit chat that occurs all too often ingame, especially if it involves singling out some avie's pixellated cleavage.
i've been lucky enough to make some really good friends on there, with whom i engage in quality convos, not necessarily intellectual but really fun in the way that i learn more about their character... and i attribute this success to the way i dress.
so i say to those ladies out there who want to dress sexily, and have their own kind of fun, so be it. you're right, it is your decision, and the decision is to what degree of interaction you want with people online. i'm sure that if you're bogged down with bills and kids and responsibilities, you don't want There to be challenging, you want an opportunity to hike those breasts up, however unreal they may be, and get some focus back on you again. good for you, if that's what makes you happy.
i just want designers to acknowledge that we all aren't RL wives and mothers trying to get our online freak on, lol! some of us genuinely want to be feminine, but with pant legs and with the power of suggestion over blatancy. we want chat bubbles to count as first impressions too. please consider this market (as some of you already have, thank you!! ) and prepare to be amazed as the T$ roll in. thanks.
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I've also noticed that the talented deisgners are heavily on the side of creating female clothing. The amount of quality mens clothing is atrocious at best. If you have skills, think about turning some of that ability from "ton-o-skin" see through shirt number 83 and make some decent looking men's clothing. The demand-supply curve is more attractive in that market... I'd buy more clothes if there were better shirts, jackets, etc for the guys. There's money to be had if ya have the skills, sadly I do not or I would be raking it in with a line of attractive men's clothing. "The difference between the English and Americans is that the English believe that 100 miles is a long way, and Americans think that 100 years is a long time" - Unknown
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Troz
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If I could find nicer preppier men's clothing (think A&F and Gap) I'd be spending TONS of money! I just bought TONS of T$ so someone get started on clothes! I need to buy Buy BUY!!!
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Merlot
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Yup, for the guys with cash, think casual and classy. We do NOT need another pirate shirt/t-shirt with PWNED on it, or hoverboard suit. There is a market out here and it's not going to buy muscle shirts, simple polos, or v-neck solids anymore. Someone with a creative nack and some photoshop talent must come to the rescue of the male Thereins with taste. "The difference between the English and Americans is that the English believe that 100 miles is a long way, and Americans think that 100 years is a long time" - Unknown
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Melora
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| Quote (Troz @ Sep. 27 2003, 4:31 pm) | | If I could find nicer preppier men's clothing (think A&F and Gap) I'd be spending TONS of money! I just bought TONS of T$ so someone get started on clothes! I need to buy Buy BUY!!! |
Do you like sweaters? I've just completed 2 mens ribbed crewneck sweaters. When they get approved, I'll give you one for free so you can advertise it for me.
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| Quote (switch_79 @ Sep. 27 2003, 4:10 pm) | melora makes a very good point with her study... i have also experienced this kind of bias, though i wouldn't say it bothers me that much. most of the time, when in chat groups with scantily-dressed avies and ogling male n00bs (or regulars), i just laugh it off and throw a few '''hearts and a 'blowkiss her way too.
the funny thing is, a LOT (i'm not going to say all) of the avies that dress this way really revel in it, and don't extend the convo past it very far. i find myself growing increasingly bored with the small talk chit chat that occurs all too often ingame, especially if it involves singling out some avie's pixellated cleavage.
i've been lucky enough to make some really good friends on there, with whom i engage in quality convos, not necessarily intellectual but really fun in the way that i learn more about their character... and i attribute this success to the way i dress.
so i say to those ladies out there who want to dress sexily, and have their own kind of fun, so be it. you're right, it is your decision, and the decision is to what degree of interaction you want with people online. i'm sure that if you're bogged down with bills and kids and responsibilities, you don't want There to be challenging, you want an opportunity to hike those breasts up, however unreal they may be, and get some focus back on you again. good for you, if that's what makes you happy.
i just want designers to acknowledge that we all aren't RL wives and mothers trying to get our online freak on, lol! some of us genuinely want to be feminine, but with pant legs and with the power of suggestion over blatancy. we want chat bubbles to count as first impressions too. please consider this market (as some of you already have, thank you!! ) and prepare to be amazed as the T$ roll in. thanks. |
Switch, you are 100% on the mark!
For me the conservations always seem to center on clothes and or roleplay-like antics when I am in my sexy clothese but when I am in more casual/Conservative clothes, (That are just as nice) I tend to have real honest to goodness conversations with people.
But you're right, people have the right to dress their avatar the way they want.
I just wish some people would be discriminating against those who dont feel like wearing sexy clothes all the time.
Thanks for expressing this 1000 times better than I did.
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I completely agree. I feel the same way. And also i agree with the "no one should have the right to discriminate people from making, and wearing these varieties of outfits!" cause its wrong.
Its not all about the money too, its also about the skill people put in making the outfits, a question for us curious, can you make a really professionally looking-made cleavage?
Its quality too :P
w00t!! MUAHAHAHA!
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Rick_Slick
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Okay how about these:
  
The one on the left and the matching slacks are actually charcoal pinstripe, it just looks black in the catalog image.
Still pending! Rick Slick
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Melora
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| Quote (Rick_Slick @ Sep. 27 2003, 6:28 pm) | Okay how about these:
The one on the left and the matching slacks are actually charcoal pinstripe, it just looks black in the catalog image.
Still pending! |
LOVE THEM!
Consider them purchased!
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Troz
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Wow Rick. VERY nice designs. THAT is the style of clothing I would buy if there was a larger selection in the men's department...Have anything similar planned for men?
Melora, thank you so much for the offer. I LOVE sweaters. Consider me your walking billboard now.
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| Quote (Ara @ Sep. 27 2003, 4:34 pm) |
I completely agree. I feel the same way. And also i agree with the "no one should have the right to discriminate people from making, and wearing these varieties of outfits!" cause its wrong.
Its not all about the money too, its also about the skill people put in making the outfits, a question for us curious, can you make a really professionally looking-made cleavage?
Its quality too :P
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oh, i understand that it's not all about the money, ara... though i do recognize that designers are going to invest in something that sells, and sex is a guaranteed seller, right?
i know it takes a lot of skill as well; god help us all if i even tried (okay, so i HAVE tried, and failed miserably, but that's besides the point, hehe)! i think that designers have a ton and a half of creativity, but that it can be attributed to other projects as well, other than perfecting the shade of cleavage on diff skin types. i constantly hear about how hard flare pants are to make in comparison to hotpants, and how this is also a reason we see more hotpants on the market, so i commend those who undergo the painstaking work of making flares -- and my best way to show appreciation is to fork over the T$, as i always have.
i sincerely hope you don't consider my comments slander against the cheerleaders or anyone who chooses to dress sexy, ara. we each have our own agendas about how we choose to interact in There.
it just seems to me that with the pages upon pages of hotpants in auctions, a designer might consider making something to really stand out from the crowd, and that's all i ask: more originality to sell, and less sex... IMHO.
and and maybe a little  ,
switch
p.s. ty for the kind words, melora.
p.p.s. rick, please tell me the business suit w/pink shirt is for vanilla as well, because i MUST have it.  regardless, nice work man.
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Rick_Slick
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Switch, I didn't use any skin tones for the three business suits... they work for all skin colors. The only business suit that is skin-specific is the one with the cleavage... that's carmel.
Troz, here's a men's version I just came up with tonight. Again, all pending approval:
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Merlot
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something similar with an open jacket and I'm in. "The difference between the English and Americans is that the English believe that 100 miles is a long way, and Americans think that 100 years is a long time" - Unknown
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the start of my fall clothes: basic black velvety soft turtleneck. sleeves have yet to be decided on. :P
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| Quote (Tansy @ Sep. 26 2003, 12:22 am) | | Whimsy, sweetie, you do wonderful stuff, but I'm hoping to see that black sweater set done in carmel. |
Thanks, Tansy!
Actually, that set works with any skintone
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Banshee_Kate
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When I started designing in late June of this year, I came out with a Celtic t-shirt. I made it because I wanted to wear it & hoped others would too. But when I asked advice from other people on it, they said it was good, but that it didn't "show enough skin to sell well, and the sexy ones are the ones that sell." So then I learned how do paint boobage....lol. Even after that, my designs have always had that "I'm a good girl with bad girl possibilities".
I am designing a two piece black suit now for women, that covers everything! Let's see what happens. If you can't be a good example, at least you can be a terrible warning.
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